If you want to be attractive on the outside to attract someone who is on the “outside” then the best way of doing this is to work on the “inner you”. You know, that person within you who is made up of beliefs, values, perceptions, evaluations, thoughts, and so on. That is the person who creates your outside world. Now I know this may sound a bit on the “new age” side of things but believe me, it isn’t.
The truth of the matter is that we indeed do create our own reality. But before you start calling “BS” on this. Allow me to explain. You create your outer world with your inner world because it’s your inner world that dictates what you will experience in your outer world.
Have you ever heard the expression “the map is not the territory” before? This means, the map (your inner map) is not the territory (your outer world). Your map is made up of beliefs, values, evaluations and judgements. And this directly influences your territory or your real world.
If you believe that “all men are jerks” or “all women are liars” then this belief system will project itself onto your reality and influence your judgements of people. Think about how many beliefs you have had in the past concerning other people that later on turned out not to be true or they were true.
Your inner world is so important to the success of your inner world, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. This is something that I learned through trial and error after being originally exposed to this notion from the video training course called the Girlfriend Activation System. And I further sought out more and more information about the inner world and how to change it in a positive way so that it would influence my outer world and allow me to better see and utilize opportunities that came my way.
The best way to “hack” your inner mind to produce better results in your reality is to develop your knowledge surrounding the topic of your mind. There are countless books on this very subject and the more you read from a variety of authors the better you will get to see the many aspects of the mind and how everything fits into place.
Once you start hacking your inner mind you can expect to attract people into your life and more and more opportunities will present themselves to you that were simply not available before. Or where they? Maybe your mind simply didn’t acknowledge them due to your internal map!